True or false? There’s rarely a time where secure is the suboptimal option. Think about it: You want the mattress lassoed to the roof of your car to be secure before you vroom, vroom on home. You want the passcode of your Spotify account to be secure so that there’s no chance of your enemies finding out your sex playlist features Ed Sheeran. And unless you’re a drama-driven diva, odds are you want your relationship to be secure, too! Well, according to psychologists, there are some people who are more prone towards secure relationships than others. Psychotherapist Dana Dorfman, PhD, explains: In the 1950s, psychologist Mary Ainsworth and psychiatrist John…